I've recently learned some more mothering lessons from my garden. You may have remembered this post. Well, I guess this time it's technically a lesson about my harvest. You see this year, I planted these cute little spinning gourds. I purchased a couple last year, and they were so much fun, I decided to grow some our own.
I started the seeds under the plant lamps in garage, so a lot of time was put into them even before planting outside...I had lots of plants so I gave some to my friend C.L. to grow in her garden. We both put the little seedlings in the garden around the same time.
A few weeks later while I was over visiting her house, I noticed a few of the little gourds on her counter. I have to admit I was quite jealous. My plants were growing sooo slowly and I was wondering if I would ever get fruit. Here she had already harvested some!
She kindly offered to give her's to me. "No, no," I said. "I'll wait and see if I get something. Although, I'm a little nervous. I planted a ton of plants and nothing yet."
Later in the summer, I did in fact reap my own little spinning gourds. In fact, I've got a large container full of at least 50. It just took my garden a little longer, apparently.
Then, it hit me. I've got to stop comparing my gourds to other people's gourds. God gave me my own special garden (my family). And my own special sprouts (Jack and Anne). And our harvest time and how we all grow and produce fruit will always look a little bit different than other families.
Do you find yourself comparing sometimes? It's not always in a jealous way. For me, it's just sometimes, "Oh, I better start working on Anne's letters and numbers. So and so already knows how to read..." I wonder if I'm running behind or if I'm parenting correcting. And sometimes it's really unreasonable too, because I often forget that two of her very closest gal pals are actually about 1.5 years older. So they are all at different stages.
Anyway, the next time I start to compare, I'm going to remember this gourd-y lesson God revealed to me and say, "Stop comparing gourds."
GIVEAWAY: Want a reminder not to compare "your gourds to other people gourds?" Leave a comment between now and Friday and I'll draw a name. The winner will get a little box of spinning gourds in the mail. Believe me, little hands will have a blast spinning them around.